Monday, January 26, 2009

Quote of the day.....

Inspiring Quote of the Day:
Quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high
intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful
execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives
- William A Foster

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

So HAPPY....

to be single.....
to be stressed free.....
to be on my own again....
to be educated....
to be employed(BLESSED)......
to be talented.....
to be fliii.......
to be young......
to be healthy.......
to be ALIVE.....
to be breathing.......
to be pretty.......
to have family that love and care about me......
to have the BEST friends in the world.....
to have my MOM still living......
to have had a father like mine(RIP)......
just to be ME..........

I guess Im in a point in my life where Im appreciating life even more then usual, since this a new year and I broke up with the person that I loved so much, who I thought he was there for me. Now that we have broken up I have found myself again. Yes I did say again. Guys and that commitment just takes up too much of my time. I don't know if I would do that anytime soon. But, I will not say never again. That was a lesson learned, no regrets at all.

So thankful for one of my best friend Yvee.... She was there when everything took place and was there by my side when I needed that person to vent to and should to cry on. I just want to say girl no matter how far we are apart, and even when you do deploy...... I will always luv you and be there for you no matter what
happens. Lovee you chica!

So thankful for my other bestie K. Jones..... She has truly been there as well. she will tell e how it is. If im doing something that is stupid and I should not be doing it, she would basically put me back in my place. Yea she would. She will keep it real with me and tell me whats on her mind even if it does hurt my feelings. LOL... funny thing is, when my (ex)bf was in jail I was gonna get his name on me. I was drunk and obviously not in my right state of mind. I said I would NEVER get any guy name tatted on me. K.Jones said if you get his name I will..... ( can't say) but I was like f you im doing it. But I ended up not going through with it and got something else. She just understands where Im coming from all the time. Loveee ya chica!

So thankful for my third bestie Joy..... Joy and I have been friends since kindergarten. we have grown up together and became the wonderful women we are today. She is very outgoing and will get along just about anybody. She has her own style and is very focus and straight forward of what she wants out of life. Especially when it comes to guys. She has this thing when when meets a guy, she asks, "Do you have a 401k or a Roth401"? I find it funny. But hey thats how she is... and she is NOT a gold digger.LOL! No matter what I lovee ya chica!

I consider all these three to be my sisters and I lovee them dearly. No matter what.

I know yall like this girl is trippn, but im not just want them to know I will always be there and I expect the same.

We're just like the cast from Sex In The City....LOL!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

NEW year NEW me

Well I know that I haven't blogged in a while but have so much to say....
Well, I started my NY off by breaking up with my bf. LOL... let, me tell you how it went down.....
Ok, so I just moved into my new apt on 12/31/08. My best friend and her bf came down to bring in the NY with me. So we all decided to go out and my (ex)bf brought along his homeboy.....
Ok so we getting dressed to go out and my (ex)bf started trippn about something that really didn't make any sense. So we are in the car riding downtown and he start saying a bunch of bs in my ear disrespecting me and his homeboy on the other side of my laughing(I'm sitting in between them in the back seat). So we get downtown and park and stand in a line for a club and his friend discovered that he had to pee. So he went to go handle his business, and while he was gone we discovered that we have to have tickets to enter into that club which line we were standing in for 20min. So.... we decided to go to another club, but his friend was not back yet, so my bestie and her bf walked off and I stayed with my (ex)bf until his friend came back. Well, when we seen him we thought he was behind us walking apparently he wasn't, so when we got to the corner he was not there. So my (ex)bf went back to get him and that's when we walked to the car and left him and his friend downtown....

My thing is don't talk crap to me and think everything is ok. Nope, it ain't go fly by me. I feel as though he deserved what he got, no his friend didn't but at the same time at least I didn't leave him down there by himself. His friend was just at the wrong place at the wrong time.....

After a while I felt bad but then I got over it. Just thinking about all this stuff he put the through for a whole year of our relationship.

It feels good to be SINGLE AGAIN!!!!

Stress free.....