HELP....What should I do??

Ok, where should I start??? There is this guy that I have been talking to off and on for three yrs now but only as a friend. He know how I felt about him at the beginning but I at the time he just wanted to be friends b/c we were just that damn kool...
Any who... all of a sudden I get a phone call after a yr later from him asking if he could see me and his bday was coming up. Well by me wanting to see him too and still having feelings for him I agreed to do so. Yea I know your think, hey wasn't you in a relationship at that time? Yes I was but my bf at the time now my ex was in jail and his time to serve at the time was unexpected. Well, I ended up taking him to one of my lil hole in the walls where we could just chill and have drinks. So, I ended up getting drunk and feeling real good and I still had to take him home. Which he stayed all the way on the other side of town. Well, in the car it got a lil touchy feely and when we got to his house it went down. :-I I blame it on the a-a-a-a-alcohol.... LOL! But I don't regret it b/c it was sooo gud. Any who I don't count that as cheating on my ex bf b/c he was locked up. So, what he don't know wont hurt him.... ! So to go ahead and make this long story short, we have been texting back and fourth and I was recently informed that he has a chick now and they stay together. But he's calling me wanting to know if we can handle business again. Now in my mind I'm thinking.. ok so your girl ain't doing something right for you to keep your mind off me. So, I'm like throwing it in his face like you wouldn't even be in this situation if we would have gotten together in the first place. And he's lie hush mouth. I told him yea that's fine but at the same time I'm like hold up I'm not no sideline hoe.... So when ur single and not tied up or in any awkward position holla atcha girl. I'm NOT gonna come second in nobody book, I will be the main bytch like I have always been in any of the relationships. Not saying that there were other females, well not that I know of. And he's like can I move in....? WTF, I know I mentioned this in one of my recently blogs. Yep that's him. Well, I'm like if i say yes, what are you gonna do about your job? and he said get another one. I asked what about your chick? I'm not trying to break up no happy home. And he said f her. So I'm like I don't think that would be a good idea b/c for the simple fact if that was me in that situation, I wouldn't want that to be done to me. KARMA IS A BYTCH!. So what should I do at this point? Do you think I handled the situation correctly? Do you think I should have slept with him that one time? HELP.... What should I do??

Emotions/Thoughts

I know I talk about my ex alot, but if you been with a person for a year and yall did everything together with each other then all of a sudden the relationship just ends like that and yall break-up.... You're still going to have feelings for that person no matter what happened between yall.

No matter how much I say I'm happy deep deep down inside I'm NOT. I'm happy to be single, but in a way I'm not. I don't like to be alone or felling like I'm by myself. Knowing that, that person or someone was there for me is now gone. It started with my dad. Me and my dad were so close and then he got sick.. I have always told myself that if anything was to happen to my parent(s) I would not know what to do or how I would accept it. And, I guess how I got this far with dealing with his death is by having someone there for me. And, I think now its time for me to gain my strength on my own and not try to fill in the hole that's in my heart b/c of the one reason......

Any who..., My ex knew how to touch me, kiss me, make me laugh and make me smile. No he wasn't the man I needed because on the other side of all the happiness and sunshine, the sun goes away and then its dark. He hurt me in so many ways and I just couldn't allow myself to be hurt or in the position anymore. So I had to let him go and do whats right for me. Now that I'm in my own apartment, sometime I sit when I'm alone and think if he was here with me what would we be doing right now? , How would it be like with us living with each other on our own?, How would it be for me to be living with him? I Never took any of my relationships to that level and that would have been the first one on the level for me. All kind of thoughts goes through my mind all the time. I wasn't really happy in that relationship, but I guess you can say I made myself happy, well on the other hand it was like 50/50 (my happiness). Every relationship has its ups and downs and ours was one of them. It had gotten to the point where my family and friends didn't like him anymore, but at that time that didn't matter to me. What mattered was me being happy, but like I said my happiness was 50/50. So at the end my family and friends will always be there for me no matter what decision I make or had made. I had to ask myself before we took this relationship to a whole other level, Is this what I really want?, Is this the person that my daddy would want me to have or be with? My cousin wanted him so bad, and I think if we would have stayed together somebody would have gotten physically hurt. So before it could even escalate to that point or situation I had to end it(tear).
I can honestly say I'm so much happy, because I'm single but I'm not happy that I'm alone. Yea I meet guys but no one will treat me the way he treated me when the sun was shinning. GOD has somebody that will treat me better and only time will tell when that person will come. I know it won't be until I have gotten myself mentally together and over that relationship and over him. I now know what I want out of a man and a relationship. I won't accept nothing less.

I LOVE MYSELF!!