HELP....What should I do??

Ok, where should I start??? There is this guy that I have been talking to off and on for three yrs now but only as a friend. He know how I felt about him at the beginning but I at the time he just wanted to be friends b/c we were just that damn kool...
Any who... all of a sudden I get a phone call after a yr later from him asking if he could see me and his bday was coming up. Well by me wanting to see him too and still having feelings for him I agreed to do so. Yea I know your think, hey wasn't you in a relationship at that time? Yes I was but my bf at the time now my ex was in jail and his time to serve at the time was unexpected. Well, I ended up taking him to one of my lil hole in the walls where we could just chill and have drinks. So, I ended up getting drunk and feeling real good and I still had to take him home. Which he stayed all the way on the other side of town. Well, in the car it got a lil touchy feely and when we got to his house it went down. :-I I blame it on the a-a-a-a-alcohol.... LOL! But I don't regret it b/c it was sooo gud. Any who I don't count that as cheating on my ex bf b/c he was locked up. So, what he don't know wont hurt him.... ! So to go ahead and make this long story short, we have been texting back and fourth and I was recently informed that he has a chick now and they stay together. But he's calling me wanting to know if we can handle business again. Now in my mind I'm thinking.. ok so your girl ain't doing something right for you to keep your mind off me. So, I'm like throwing it in his face like you wouldn't even be in this situation if we would have gotten together in the first place. And he's lie hush mouth. I told him yea that's fine but at the same time I'm like hold up I'm not no sideline hoe.... So when ur single and not tied up or in any awkward position holla atcha girl. I'm NOT gonna come second in nobody book, I will be the main bytch like I have always been in any of the relationships. Not saying that there were other females, well not that I know of. And he's like can I move in....? WTF, I know I mentioned this in one of my recently blogs. Yep that's him. Well, I'm like if i say yes, what are you gonna do about your job? and he said get another one. I asked what about your chick? I'm not trying to break up no happy home. And he said f her. So I'm like I don't think that would be a good idea b/c for the simple fact if that was me in that situation, I wouldn't want that to be done to me. KARMA IS A BYTCH!. So what should I do at this point? Do you think I handled the situation correctly? Do you think I should have slept with him that one time? HELP.... What should I do??

So HAPPY....

to be single.....
to be stressed free.....
to be on my own again....
to be educated....
to be employed(BLESSED)......
to be talented.....
to be fliii.......
to be young......
to be healthy.......
to be ALIVE.....
to be breathing.......
to be pretty.......
to have family that love and care about me......
to have the BEST friends in the world.....
to have my MOM still living......
to have had a father like mine(RIP)......
just to be ME..........

I guess Im in a point in my life where Im appreciating life even more then usual, since this a new year and I broke up with the person that I loved so much, who I thought he was there for me. Now that we have broken up I have found myself again. Yes I did say again. Guys and that commitment just takes up too much of my time. I don't know if I would do that anytime soon. But, I will not say never again. That was a lesson learned, no regrets at all.

So thankful for one of my best friend Yvee.... She was there when everything took place and was there by my side when I needed that person to vent to and should to cry on. I just want to say girl no matter how far we are apart, and even when you do deploy...... I will always luv you and be there for you no matter what
happens. Lovee you chica!

So thankful for my other bestie K. Jones..... She has truly been there as well. she will tell e how it is. If im doing something that is stupid and I should not be doing it, she would basically put me back in my place. Yea she would. She will keep it real with me and tell me whats on her mind even if it does hurt my feelings. LOL... funny thing is, when my (ex)bf was in jail I was gonna get his name on me. I was drunk and obviously not in my right state of mind. I said I would NEVER get any guy name tatted on me. K.Jones said if you get his name I will..... ( can't say) but I was like f you im doing it. But I ended up not going through with it and got something else. She just understands where Im coming from all the time. Loveee ya chica!

So thankful for my third bestie Joy..... Joy and I have been friends since kindergarten. we have grown up together and became the wonderful women we are today. She is very outgoing and will get along just about anybody. She has her own style and is very focus and straight forward of what she wants out of life. Especially when it comes to guys. She has this thing when when meets a guy, she asks, "Do you have a 401k or a Roth401"? I find it funny. But hey thats how she is... and she is NOT a gold digger.LOL! No matter what I lovee ya chica!

I consider all these three to be my sisters and I lovee them dearly. No matter what.

I know yall like this girl is trippn, but im not just want them to know I will always be there and I expect the same.

We're just like the cast from Sex In The City....LOL!